Call me crazy but its amazing that even open minded people openly insult lesbians and gays on a daily basis and it seems to just be acceptable. Not spossed to get into an argument over such things and turn mountains into mole hills. But if we don't get pissed off and tell people their words are often harsh or double edged, even if unintentionally so. GLBT community faces hard enough obstacles, living in rural towns full of narrow minded people makes it very hard to live a normal life. Shoving us into forcing us to change to suit their own definitions of normal is so wrong that it is sort of rediculouse.